Gift of Expression

Whether you are in a relationship or not, whether you are with your family or a friend or whether you are with a known or unknown companion;first of all I have seen very few who talk and even if they do I have rarely witnessed them share a positive expression with one another.

Furthermore, it hits me ' do we openly convey our positive feelings (e.g. expression of compliment or our affection for someone) to the noticeable other', or as often observed ' leave it unsaid....unexpressed'. When you are angry what do you do? Have you ever observed yourself or another angry being? Let's consider a situation: what do you do when something or someone interfere's with your status quo and you get furious?

Have you never taken reprisal against the perpetrator who caused you the pain, or worse of vent it out on a humble prey? A case in point for a humble prey, which I am sure all of us can relate to, driving in the city traffic along with a companion who occupies the shortgun seat.

If we give it a thought, one's action is or would have been contrary to how the reaction would have been towards a positive feeling within.

We let our accumulated frustration and anger take control of us turning us into venomous poison spitting viper, the abuses gush out as if it's our mother tongue, fatal enough to kill the other/s. I have heard majority say "In anger, uttering abuses calms me down". Is it true, really? Then what is it that hold you back from openly expressing your positive feelings. We miss out on the realization, a release of positive expression is an essential vitamin for a healthy living which should not be left unuttered. I truly believe that everything that we have is there for a purpose, for instance our eyes for vision a gift to enjoy the beauty around us or let's say our ears to acknowledge our surroundings. So is the purpose of feelings that ache deep inside and our ability to express these feelings. Give your positive feelings of expression a chance and you will see your relationships grow. A gift of expression is what we are blessed with , my dear friends. Let us be thankful and remember that there are few who remain unfortunate. If there is someone out there who has an incident to share where he/she has reacted otherwise? I would be happy to know. *